After the initial date

A quick update on where they all are now ....

K-1 - After our initial date, K-1 sms'd me expressing a desire to also learn Krav.  I  took a week to respond, and only then mentioned the next intake was in July but gave him the web address...   With no further correspondence, I thought he took the hint - until today. He just called me 3 1/2 weeks later to "touch base" and let me know he was moving to Europe "after the Federal Election". ahahah..   Maybe he thought i was just taking my time again to get in contact!.

K-2 - After our second date, K-2 went overseas and will be over there I think for 3-6 weeks.  I actually haven't responded to his last txt yet but dont really see the point if he's not around anyway.

K-3 Is pretty keen to go putt putt this weekend and is still emailing/txting everyday- Unfortunately I think we need to have a chat and I need to make it clear it will only be as friends. Not looking forward to that conversation.

K-4  - I went on 4 dates with K-4 and whilst I still think he's a nice guy - it all came undone when I went around to his house for the first time for dinner - and arrived to him having had a few too many beverages. Dinner wasn't organised, & he couldn't drive - so i ended up driving to get some Chinese takeaway - After an unexpected "can we talk" moment where a lot of heavy stuff was put on the table - i realised we weren't really compatible afterall..  

L-1 - I agreed to meet up with L1 again last weekend, and he surprised me with a trip to the museum and lunch on the river followed by a walk around South Bank.  It was a really great day and after chatting quite a bit since, I have agreed to catch up with him again this weekend - I believe a trip to Mt Tamborine is on the cards :-)

L-2 - The day after the date I had a text from L-2 saying he had a lovely time and would love to see me again.  He also suggested a wager of dinner on the upcoming Lions/Collingwood game.  In the interest of not leading him on I replied suggesting we would be better as friends... and that Lions would flog them anyway (couldn't resist).  He took it really well and now the pressure is off, so I can spend more time worrying about L3-10!  I have chatted with him since, but now at least he has no false hopes of being anything more than mates.