K4 Reformed bad boy - or all round good guy

I haven't always been single- but I have always had terrible judgment when it comes to guys... Once when a guy was telling me how he didn't want a serious relationship, I was busy thinking how cute that anecodote would in a speech at our our wedding reception.... or the time when my boyfriend told me slept with another girl on my birthday - I managed to convince myself that I was lucky to have found such an "honest" guy.... Even when i found out my partner was illegally importing firearms, I almost thought that was entrepreneurial and I thought I could convince him to diversify into textiles or whitegoods instead.....

When you see a nice guy - I see a big forehead - When you see a drunken guy fertilizing a pot plant with his vomit - I see a guy that clearly eats vegetables and is a keen gardener... So my point is - girls might not necessarily like the bad boy - but I seem to be attracted to the allure of a challenge.

A few months ago, a friend mentioned a uni friend of hers that might be a good catch - So in the spirit of the 10-in-105 challenge I finally decided to email him and invite him out for my second ever blind date.


Vital Stats



Name: K4

Age: 30

Occupation: Accountant (yeah, I know i'll have to avoid any Accounting conventions soon!)

Meet Place: 6.30pm - The Groove Train (Riverside restaurant/bar)


This time I wasn't nervous - this challenge is definitely getting easier.. Instead of being crazy nervous, I was actually looking forward to meeting K-4.

First impressions of K-4 were tall, dark and pretty cute!... He was friendly, and chatty and very easy to talk to... After a couple of drinks, we decided to settle in for dinner .... The thing about K-4 is that he had me intrigued in that despite his successful career now - he alluded to having a complicated past.... He was honest, without being over-indulgent in details, friendly without being fake, and left me with a feeling that I want to know more about him.

We seem to have very similar interests now but our vastly different life experiences in the past makes me wonder if its a perfect complement to my brady bunch upbringing or if i'm repeating old mistakes and biting off more than I can chew.
After dinner I actually had to leave as my car was about to be locked into a parking garage overnight...K-4 paid for dinner, while I paid for most of the drinks. We said goodbye on a traffic island in the middle of the road, and narrowly missed getting absolutely saturated by a heavy storm that arrived about 60 seconds after we said goodbye.

K-4 sent a txt later on saying he had a great night and would like to catch up again...And you know what - I like him so I think that just might happen...But as I said at the start, I haven't always had the best judgement, so I"ll take your advice - pls vote in the poll and tell me what to do!!!!


Date Potential: 4/5.


A special mention to Olga - who despite sewerage leaks in the work gym ( our makeshift dressing room for dates), competing social events and heavy work loads - continually offers her help in styling my hair, applying my makeup and adding accessories to my date outfits... thanks so much for your help!!!...